Welcome to the STAGE ~
Hey gorgeous! I see you — strong, powerful, and refusing to let menopause slow you down one little bit.
Hot Flashy & Sassy is here to help you strut into midlife with confidence, elegance, and unapologetic style.
Sick and tired of hearing, “Grow old gracefully”?
Then buckle up for some Sass, Strength, and a hard dose of Self-Worth.
You’ve raised babies, built careers, survived heartbreaks, and held it all together — sometimes with grace, sometimes with pure grit. So… now what?
Now, it’s your time.
This is the era where you stop shrinking and start shining. Where softness is strength, boundaries are sacred, and you finally become the woman you’ve always admired.
This isn’t about a comeback.
This is your power unleashed.
This is your second act — and it’s going to be the best damn show yet!
Inside these pages, you’ll rediscover your worth, rewrite your story, and reclaim your body, your voice, and your power.
Here’s my promise: I won’t just talk about my journey - I’ll show you the pages where I lived it.
In my blog Hot Takes and Sassy Thoughts, you’ll find actual journal entries I wrote during my biggest moments of growth, heartbreak, and transformation. Because sometimes the truest wisdom is scribbled in ink at 2 a.m. You will see my story not as a highlight reel, but as a real, glorious second act.
With elegance, confidence, and a little sass, you’ll learn how to:
Embrace your femininity without apology
Create daily rituals that serve your soul
Elevate your health, beauty, and finances
Attract everything meant for you — effortlessly
Because midlife isn’t the end. It’s the encore.
And baby… YOU are center stage!
My 50 & Fabulous Birthday, 2023
💖 – Melody
Creator of Hot Flashy & Sassy
Still Hot. Still Lifting. Still Got It.
Spill the Tea, Gorgeous!
Ready to own your stage? Drop me a note and let’s make our second act stunning!
P.S. I usually respond within 48 hours - because girlfriends don’t keep each other waiting.